Desperado
Training Mutant
Former teacher. Former husband. Former agitator. Former slave.
Posts: 29
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Post by Desperado on Apr 16, 2012 10:17:39 GMT -4
On Saturday, my wife went into pre-term labor. We lost the baby. I'm going to be out of touch for a while to get everything sorted out. Feel free to mod my characters in the interim. Jacob's confused and trying to come to grips with things. Alex is determined and still in "soldier" mode. Forge is out there somewhere. I'm thinking that he might have been here a little earlier, so his handiwork may be evident. Might work to make the whole "survival" thing a little easier.
Take care, and God bless.
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Post by Gambit on Apr 16, 2012 11:01:52 GMT -4
I’m so sorry for your loss. Take all the time you need, we’ll be here whenever you’re ready, or if ever you need us. All our thoughts are with you and your family.
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Post by Guido Carosella on Apr 16, 2012 12:10:00 GMT -4
I'm so sorry for your loss. Tending to your family comes first now; don't even worry about this place.
There aren't any words of comfort that will make you feel any better now. This happened to my wife and I twice and it didn't work for us either. I'm sorry to say the pain never completely goes away, but it will lessen over time. You will laugh again someday, I promise.
In the meantime, give this book a try. We've still got our copy.
I'll Hold You In Heaven: Healing and Hope for the Parent Who has Lost a Child through Miscarriage, Stillbirth, Abortion or Early Infant Death by Jack Hayford.
Thoughts and prayers for you and your wife.
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Post by Hank McCoy on Apr 16, 2012 15:42:29 GMT -4
Terrible news. So sorry to hear.
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Post by Logan on Apr 16, 2012 15:59:13 GMT -4
I also can relate with this, and those books Guido mentioned are good ones.
So sorry for your loss. Take your time-we'll be here for you.
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Desperado
Training Mutant
Former teacher. Former husband. Former agitator. Former slave.
Posts: 29
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Post by Desperado on May 7, 2012 21:22:14 GMT -4
Thanks, everyone, for your support, and for the book recommendation. As soon as the Kindle is fired up, I'm looking at downloading it if I can. We're okay, finally. Wife may be taking it better than me right now, but I had to carry her for the last few weeks, so I guess it'll work out. Currently living in temporary housing until July. Trying to get a fresh start, and all. Finally got my computer up and running, but my chair is in storage . May still be a while before I post IC, but it'll definitely be by the end of the week. Once more, thanks. As pathetic as it sounds, you guys were my friends back in a time when I didn't have any. Now, I've got more than I bargained for.
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